Dear Yantie… Love always, Yantie. 

Dear Yantie,

I know you are left broken but you will be alright. Even though he made you feel horrible and worthless, just know that you were strong enough to take the courage so that you will no longer be victimised. It is never okay to be treated so badly and no one ever has the right to do so. And I know that letting go was difficult because you clung to the good memories and the amazing feelings he gave you at first. But you need to remember how sad you felt when he showed you his true colours. No one has ever treated you so badly and I promise that no one will ever do so again. You never deserved it and you deserve so much better. No matter what anyone tells you, you are truth and you are mature and you are love and you are beauty and you are kindness but most of all, you are worthy. Worthy of happiness and respect. It may take time to heal but do not slow the process by chasing validation or things or people that will hurt you. Instead, get lost in the beauty that you see everywhere and find yourself again. 

Love always, 



Author: thegirlinthewineredscarf

I'm a '97, Malaysian, Muslim, westernised, Rumi loving kiwi and feminist, who is still a bit naive at times but have a lot of wisdom to tell you. This blog will have a bit of everything such as faith, poetry, makeup/beauty and life/relationships advice, reviews, responses to current events, travel and maybe some fashion inspo. My starting this blog was due to an epiphany where I realised that this life is too short to be closed minded, to have not experienced life or at least tried to pursue your passions or dreams. I hope to inspire, advise or give you another perspective on things that matters or doesn't really matter. If my posts had put a smile on your face, made you think or sets a fire to your soul, then please let me know in the comments below.

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